Ok it seems as if most users of these forums are open minded enough to accept the fact that what we perceive is just our own point of view and associations of programmed events. Events maybe programmed such as a Rooster waking you up at a certain time, or the Sun aligning with the Galctic Center on December 12, 2012.
External events may happen because they are already programmed and we are experiencing subjectively and differently, the execution of loops of events. Possibly the actions are already made and we can only interpret those actions as we perceive to be realizing them or understand why we have made a choice or action.
Now that that's out of the way, and you can accept it. You can have fun with it. Experiencing desired posibilities, within your chosen limits. Attempting to survive after jumping off a 100 story building is fun if you have a parachute and the skills required.
I believe there is no I, no self. There is only behaviors (processes). What you think you are is what you think you can do, experience and create.
The idea that there is a God controlling every single action and process in the Universe is a statement which is false and true. Think about it if you were a super High consciousness being who creates a program like Sim city, Can you imagine the Game engine that this I would create. Doesn't matter how advanced it is , because it has to keep evolving or upgrading, (changing).
It's so developed that every scenario and any scenario is possible within this Game Engine being run with a Mind so advanced that it is like a Quantum Computer.
All that's left is to do whatever, since it's all done, might as well drive the experience or be driven.
Stop wanting, better to receive. Like Morpheous said "Stop trying to hit me and hit me"
If he can do it , you can do it. If you want a Super Hot girlfriend, become the guy that naturally attracts Super Hot Women. Remember that guy is just running different processes than you, run them as well. If you want a Big Plasma TV to watch sports be the guy that watches sports on a Big Plasma TV. No need to follow the herd's "rules" or expectations. Focus on what you want and become it.
An easy example: You are a couch potato, you are in the lower economic class. If thats the process you want to keep running all the time then great, if it's not then great. If you feel you have no choice then great, You are running the process where you are being a couch potato who feels they have no choice but to be a couch potato belonging to the lower economic class. It's all free will, there must be some reason why you are choosing to be a couch potato over being the active, physical, social person who the couch potato watches on TV or reads about.
Live and let live.
Here is a link that may or may not guide you to taking control of your Processes (belief systems, matrix). The free ebook Fringe knowledge contains knowledge on the Author's perception of the Game engine that we call reality.
http://montalk.net/Here is a link that shows How using Neuro Linguistic Programming one can trigger desired behaviors from other limited consciousnes, i's all about what drives them.
http://www.thenlpcompany.com/techniques/hypnotic-persuasion-lesson-two-example-changing-reality/
We are the gamers constantly programming our experience